Retreats
I lead or co-lead daylong and multi-day retreats. From a national historic landmark in Vermont and a retreat cabin on Galiano Island, BC, to a farm estate in Virginia and beautiful homes in Los Angeles and in the Blue Ridge Mountains of North Carolina, I’ve facilitated retreats in inspiring settings across the US and beyond.
See below for examples of retreats I lead. Feel free to reach out if you’re interested in bringing a retreat to your community / serving as a host or sign up for my newsletter to stay in the loop on upcoming offerings.
Unfoldment Lab
A Daylong Retreat
Our world is in a metacrisis as we’re facing multiple overlapping crises around climate change, rising social inequality and political polarization, the erosion of trust in government and institutions, the threats of nuclear weapons and exponential technologies like AI, … the list goes on. Individually and collectively, these times ask us to evolve and transform to respond wisely to the challenges and open to emergent, life-affirming possibilities.
In this daylong lab, we’ll explore a simple and radical question: what if nothing is missing? What’s here if there’s no problem to solve? What if you are already a whole human being and have exactly what it takes?
This is the premise of Unfoldment, a powerful alternative to the self-improvement / self-help industrial complex where we’re never good enough and constantly trying to fix and optimize ourselves (and when our efforts seem to fail we often conclude we don’t have what it takes).
Unfoldment is the natural process that enables us to grow and thrive as all living organisms do when we create the right conditions. It’s a practice of learning to trust life and letting life teach us how to live it. To deepen self-contact and meet all parts of our present-moment experience with compassion and curiosity. To embrace our tenderness as well as our fierceness.
As we turn toward rather than resist what’s happening, we naturally unfold and unlock inner resources to meet the complexity and challenges we face with exactly what’s needed.
This lab will help you see how to create the conditions in your life for your innate wholeness to unfold so you can:
Show up in a more centered, compassionate, and generative way for yourself and everyone around you.
Witness and respond to world events, fast-paced change, and complexity with more clarity, creativity, and resilience.
Carry out your work, and share your gifts, with more skillfulness, confidence, and ease.
What You’ll Learn
We’ll practice how to attune to ourselves, others, and the world in a way that connects us with the beauty, truth, and goodness that’s already here and promotes connection, purpose, and deepening unfoldment. You’ll leave with a new framework and practical tools and techniques that you can use again and again for relating to yourself and others with curiosity and compassion so that you (and they) can show up more fully for your work, your friends, your family, and a world that needs your gifts.
The Retreat Experience - Being Held and Holding Space
During our time together, we’ll be held in a beautiful home and in community with a small, intimate group of other beautiful humans who care deeply about our world. We will draw upon evidence-based practices and wisdom teachings, engage in self-inquiry and group discussion, share poetry and movement, and engage in guided meditations and dyad/small group practices.
What Past Participants Are Saying:
“The Unfoldment Workshop was a powerful day of connecting with the nature within myself through self-inquiry. I walked away with a heightened attunement to nature’s impulse within me that I hope to practice more deeply moving forward.”
- Sami, San Francisco, CA
“It is incredible what just a few minutes of unfolding can do! Sarah-Marie is skillful in creating a safe space and relating this new concept in a short amount of time. The exercises were powerful as was walking out with a new community of like minded individuals, each of us wanting to deepen our trust in the universe and ourselves in order to live with more joy and ease.”
- Brinda Ghiya, inclusion advocate and edupreneur, Los Angeles, CA
“I feel calmer, more grounded, and more JOY after doing this retreat. I accessed the strong, wise, and centered part of myself that serves me in my life more than the stress & anxiety voices. I also made some new friends and had a lot of fun. I just love Sarah-Marie’s facilitation style. She is patient and supportive, and she leaves a lot of space for answers… I'm just very impressed overall -- and I facilitate a lot of groups, so I know quality when I see it. Highly recommended -- especially for perfectionists and other high-achievers who are growth-minded.”
- Mel C., Los Angeles, CA
Anti-Fragile Heart
A 5-Day Retreat Into the Heart of Being Fully Alive
I’ve been honored to co-led a 5-day relational retreat, the Anti-Fragile Heart Retreat. An *anti-fragile heart* is in touch with truth, beauty, and goodness in each moment, inviting us to meet ourselves and others in the fullness of life and our shared humanity.
During this retreat, we're inviting you to turn toward and connect with the depth of your heart, the clarity of your vision, and the embodiment of creating a truly meaningful life. We'll be exploring how to open our minds and hearts to the beauty and power of real intimacy with ourselves, others, and the world, both within the retreat context and in the rest of our lives. We will tenderly and fiercely explore what gets in the way of feeling fully alive and creating more of what you truly want. During our time together, we'll weave together integral unfoldment, emotional sovereignty, relational dynamics, meditation, and embodiment work, held within the unfoldment paradigm, recognizing your inherent wholeness and potential waiting to be revealed.
You can learn more about the 2024 retreat in Asheville, NC and check out what facilitators and participants are saying about the experience at http://antifragileheart.com/.
If you’re interested in being part of a future version of this retreat, you can join the waitlist for 2025 here.
Unfolding Words, Emergent Worlds
A Weeklong Writing Retreat
We will write not to meet word counts; but to breathe more deeply into what is present. This writing retreat is held with openness to whatever wants to flow within, amidst or about our metacrisis.
Together we’ll create a container for attuning to ourselves, others, and the world in a way that connects us with and reveals more of the truth, beauty, and goodness that’s already here. As words unfold on the page, so do new generative possibilities and worlds to inhabit.
Beyond an opening and closing circle, we will have optional meditations, movement/dancing, co-cooking, nature walks and conversation. Otherwise, the time is intentionally unstructured, leaving you with wonderful spaces to cozy up and write.
I’ve been honored to co-lead the first iteration of the “Unfolding Words, Emergent Worlds” Writing Retreat with Alexandra Booth on Galiano Island, BC in May 2024.